Community Guidelines & Cozy Etiquette
Welcome to ddlg.fun! Whether you identify as a Little, a Caregiver, a Middle, or someone who simply adores Fairy Kei and pastel comfort aesthetics, these guidelines keep our shared sanctuary welcoming, uplifting, and safe for every member.
Warmth Over Judgment
We celebrate soft hobbies, plushie collections, coloring, and healthy nurturing dynamics without shame or gatekeeping.
Strictly 18+ Adults Only
Every reader, contributor, and community member on ddlg.fun must be a consenting adult aged 18 or older.
Respect Role Boundaries
A member's role badge is an expression of identity, never an invitation for unsolicited roleplay or DMs.
100% Safe-For-Work (SFW) Editorial & Feed Standards
Our platform is designed so you can comfortably browse articles and community posts in a coffee shop or living room.
- ✓Cozy Lifestyle & Decor: Reading nooks, fairy lights, pastel stationery, sticker journals, and plushie shelf tours.
- ✓Pastel & Kawaii Fashion: Everyday Fairy Kei outfits, cardigans, cozy loungewear, and sensory clothing tips.
- ✓Healthy Dynamic Discussions: Thoughtful advice on bedtime routines, hydration check-ins, praise, and partner communication.
- ✓Creative Self-Care: Coloring book pages, cozy recipes, strawberry milk lattes, and nostalgia movie lists.
- ✕Under-18 Access or Imagery: Anyone under 18—or any content depicting or involving minors—is permanently banned.
- ✕Explicit / NSFW Media: Nudity, sexually explicit photographs, or erotic stories are not permitted anywhere on the site.
- ✕Unsolicited Public Roleplay: Calling strangers pet names or assuming a Caregiver/Little authority over members you do not know.
- ✕Shaming, Bullying, or Doxxing: Mocking a member's aesthetic, role identity, or sharing private off-platform details.
Role Badge Etiquette & Respectful Interaction
Ask Before Using Pet Names
Terms like 'little one', 'sweetheart', or 'Sir/Mommy/Daddy' are deeply personal. Only use dynamic titles or pet names with partners who have explicitly invited you to do so.
No Gatekeeping 'True' Little Space
Everyone's cozy headspace looks different. Whether someone loves pastel pink Sanrio plushies, quiet forest-core reading, or building LEGO sets, all SFW expressions are valid.
Respect Solo & Taken Badges
Many members join ddlg.fun purely for solo self-care, friendship, and editorial inspiration. Always respect 'Not Looking / Friends Only' profile badges.
How Our Human Moderation Team Keeps the Space Safe
Friendly Etiquette Reminder
For minor, unintentional slips (such as forgetting a content tag), our moderators send a polite private note explaining how to edit the post.
Temporary Posting Pause
Repeated etiquette issues or heated arguments result in a 24- to 72-hour cool-down pause while our team reviews context.
Zero-Tolerance Removal
Harassment, non-consensual behavior, explicit NSFW uploads, or age-policy violations result in an immediate, permanent ban.